Wednesday, May 28, 2014

Party

We have and a party here every night for at least a week.

Last weekend James and his friends came over both Friday and Saturday night.  Saturday night Gordon had gone to bed and I was in pj's ready for bed getting my primary lesson ready waiting for Matthew to get home from a date when at 11:30pm James and friends come over after Senior Sunset to play games.  I made cookies and they all left at 1am.

Friday night they all stopped by after the yearbook signing party.

Monday we were at my Aunt Rilla's for her Party to celebrate my Grandma Freda's 98th birthday.  She hosts a great party with a great house and yard.  It's fun to see my Jackson side of the family.

Tuesday we had a pizza party here for James' friends.  It was a crazy day getting ready for our trip and the party and graduation.

James after his party last night.  I have been terrible about taking pictures- I am a little busy getting all the food and stuff together after all.
All I can say is that I am so glad I don't drink alcohol.  Getting up in the morning has been hard enough.  It has been so great to have such good kids here at my house every night.  I fell blessed that James has had such great friends throughout his high school experience.  

Sunday, May 25, 2014

James is one step closer

Tonight James received the Melchizedek Priesthood.  It all fell into place perfectly because Gordon's sister Melissa came from Colorado tonight and his other sister Katie came for dinner.  Gordon's parents and my parents came and we ordained James and then had dinner.  It was a great evening and I love having such wonderful family!  We are so blessed.  Ironically I had Adaline's Young Women's leader email me a question that she wanted me to respond to for next weeks lesson.  The question was about my husband and his priesthood.  This was my response:

To me holding the priesthood gives my husband a special opportunity to serve others.  He never is able to bless himself with his priesthood.  It is all about serving others.  My favorite time of year is when the kids and I get back to school blessings.  That evening we gather and each of the kids is given a special blessings form their earthly father and their Heavenly Father.  I also receive a blessing.  I remember one year after Gordon had given all of us beautiful blessings how sad one of the kids was that Gordon didn't get a blessing.  I am so grateful that we have a priesthood holder in our home.  Tonight is special because Gordon just ordained James to the Melchizedek priesthood.  So I saw his priesthood power being used just today.
Good luck on your lesson,
Laura

Mother's Day

Mother's day was great.  I got the traditional breakfast in bed and wonderful cards from the kids.  James gave me a solar flower that moves back and forth.  I love it.  It makes me happy.  Jacob made a huge sign that said "You are the best mom." From a super introverted kid it was nice to know what he thought of me.  I got up and helped Isaac make my muffins and then I had to go back to bed to eat them.  I missed Matthew's oatmeal that he makes with cream.  I told him next year I'm counting on it.  Church was incredible.  The seniors always speak for Mother's day.  It was fun to hear from Rachel Christensen, Matthew Newrin, and Levi Madsen.  James spoke last and I don't think there was a dry eye in the place.  He did an incredible job.  It was straight from his heart and it was beautiful.  It made my year and made me glad I spent the last 18 years raising him.  I also know that he is ready to serve the Lord.  We came home and Gordon had plans for dinner, but I just couldn't sit by so I helped with the potatoes.  The plan was to go for dessert at my Mom's but I called her and she didn't have plans for dinner so we packed up our dinner and took it up to my mom's.  Julia stopped by later for dessert.  It was a perfect Mother's day because I finally figured out what Mother's day is all about- getting off my rear and serving others.





Last Chance 2014

While we were at the ballet recital James and Matthew went to Last Chance.  James was asked by Kartika and Matthew went with Bianca.  It was fun to have both of them asked (I was a little nervous because it's tricky when one gets asked and not the other.).  They went with great people and in great groups so it was a wonderful last dance of the year.

Saturday, May 10, 2014

Ballet recital

La Syphlide was the ballet they did this year.  It has a very twisted story but the girls dancing was beautiful.  Bridie stole the show.  She led her group to where they were supposed to be.  She kept the wild ones in check and she was so cute!  Adaline has become a beautiful dancer and received her award for dancing 10 years with Mrs. Mary.  She has been a wonderful model for Adaline.  I am grateful for her.




Wednesday, May 7, 2014

Why we will miss him so much

Eleanor asked James if she could drive to see him while he was on his mission.  James explained that they wouldn't be able to see each other.  She said "I am going to write you so many letters that you are going to say 'Ah!  This is too many letters.'"  It's going to be hard on all of us when James leaves.
He is so good to them.  They love him.

Monday, May 5, 2014

Eating Korean food

So the next day after James opened his call we decided to go to a Korean restaurant to try the cuisine.  We googled Korean Food in our area and found one that people posted highly about.  We went and were the only non Korea people there so we figured it must be pretty authentic.  The food was surprisingly good and we finish everything off.  It was a fun thing to do to celebrate James' call.

Sunday, May 4, 2014

Opening the mission call times 2

Gordon and I flew home and went straight to my parents for dinner and to see my kids.  I didn't know that James had brought his mission call up to my parents.  He had told all his friends 9 pm that night. At my parents house they all wanted him to open it there but he had already told his friends to come over later.  We decided that he could "open" it twice.  Once for family, once for his friends.  So we all guessed, got Jim and Ali on FaceTime, called Gordon's parents over, Christina and David's families were already there and we opened it.  Korea, Busan.  Leaving Sept. 3.  It was a total shock!  No one guessed Korea!  It was not even on the radar.  We thought some Chinese speaking mission somewhere.  I was hoping for Manchester, England Chinese speaking.  But the Lord had other plans. Then we left to make it home for party no. 2.  We had to make cookies, brownies and get our bags put away.  Then people stared coming and it was so fun.  Earlier that day was testimony meeting and James had gotten up to bear his testimony and told that he had his call but was waiting for us to come home to open it (what a great kid).  And invited any one who wanted to come over to our house that night.  So we had a great group of friends and neighbors.  They all cheered when he opened it.  None of my kids said anything about the earlier opening.  I was so proud of them.  I am so glad to have the summer with James and he will be back just in time for school in 2 years.  I know this is where he is supposed to go.  I am glad.
James round 2 at our house.  Below: The guess list for round 2.

James round one at grandma's

James with his letter

Round 2 at our house.

It really was exciting the second time too.

People we love.  I love that because Kartika couldn't be there Mackenzie FaceTimed her.


James with some friends.

Saturday, May 3, 2014

Florida

Gordon was invited to join "The Academy".  It is a big deal.  He had to be recommended by his boss and the president of Intermountain had to write a letter of recommendation for him and then he had to be accepted.  The first conference for The Academy was in Florida.  We had heard from another doctor that it was a tough group and they felt really uncomfortable there.  I had already bought my ticket or else I might have bowed out right then and there.  Well I decided to go and make the best of it.  I invited my dear friend Brandi (who was the stake primary president I served with) and one of my most fashionable friends to help me pick out clothes to wear while in Florida.  After going through my closet she declared "You have nothing that you can wear."  So we went shopping for non-mommy clothing because apparently I have none.  We pulled together enough outfits for the welcoming evening, the Lily Pulitzer night, the Black and White night and for the day activities which included cooking school, shopping, walking, water aerobics, Kentucky derby hat making and snorkeling.  I am not a huge shopper but Brandi and I found some really great things.  I really wanted to make a good impression.  I hate fitting a stereotype and when you are a Mormon, stay at home mother of 7 people stereotype you and its nice for people to see that Mormons are normal (kind of) :).  We stayed at the Ocean Reef Resort in Key Largo, FL.  The Obamas just spent spring break at this resort.  Gordon and I flew from Salt Lake to Los Angeles to Miami.  I saw the Pacific Ocean, Gulf of Mexico and the Atlantic Ocean all in 6 hours.  It is incredible!  The Ocean Reef Resort is very exclusive and to get in you mush present ID and they check on the register to make sure that you are a registered guest and then you are given a pass for just the days that you are registered for.  We had a really nice room.  I had a full kitchen, living room, bedroom, dressing room, bathroom, and deck.  Gordon was gone every day from 8 until 5.  We would meet for dinner and not get back to our room until 10pm.  The first morning Gordon left and I was scheduled for a walk with the other spouses.  We met and I realized how nice people are.  I had a wonderful time talking and getting to know ladies from all over the country.  While we were walking the head lady points to me and asks how many kids I have.  I said 7 and everyone looked at me in disbelief.  Then she says "7 times 5 is 35.  So 35 lunges right here."  I apologized profusely for having so many children.  It was a really nice ice breaker.  Everyone knew me as the lady with 7 children.  People talked to me about my kids and I was able to talk about James' prospective mission call and him serving a mission for our church.  It was such a great experience.  One day during lunch I shared the plan of salvation.  Not because I wanted to be preachy but because they kept asking me questions.  The last evening we had dinner with a great couple from Philadelphia and the gospel came up again.  It was wonderful.  People are so curious about Mormons.  It's nice to be able to answer some questions and clear up some misconceptions.  I did snorkel for the first time in my life.  That was an adventure.  I am so afraid of open water and the water was so choppy but Gordon held my hand and we saw the most beautiful things!  We went twice this trip one on the first day and again on the last day.  I was sad to come home.  I forget how hard I work.  Every day is really hard but caring for the kids makes it all worth it.  We drove back to Miami Saturday morning for our afternoon flight to Denver and then Salt Lake.  We got our car checked in and got to our gate and then our flight was canceled- because of a broken toilet.  At this point I was ready to get home.  I just thought "What if we all wear depends?  Can we just get home?"  But instead we stood in line for 2 hours got our flight rescheduled for the next day and got booked into the Marriott with meal money.  I just wanted to get on a treadmill and run.  So that's what we did when we got to our room, got changed into running clothes and ran away all the stress of a canceled flight, a mission call that was delivered that day and I wasn't there, and kids that were taking care of themselves (not too stressful.  They are really good kids).  We caught our flight the next day and got back to Provo just tin time to open James' mission call.
 The first night.  In the dressing room.
 Lilly pulitzer night.  Her style is wild and crazy.

 Making a Kentucky derby hat after doing water aerobics and before snorkeling so I didn't bother with make up and hair :).
 On the boat.  Snorkeling
 Me and my hat that got left in Florida.  I didn't want to wear it home.

     On the boat to go snorkeling.